一些去年开始脑中的杂念。
Always maintain a certain level of detachment to human nature, it can be learned, enjoyed, even manipulated, but never indulge yourself in it, without seeing the constant volatility.
Any obsession has a price tag.
What hurts you is not the impact of the event, it is how you interpret it.
If you forget some lesson, one possible reason is, it's not painful enough for you to remember.
Check from other's perspective before finalizing anything
Moderate pain is most comfortable: we are always in pain, either the pain from meaningless life not knowing what to do, or the pain from working on something that takes effort. At least the later one has extra bonus and is aligned with our human nature.
善意的嘲笑是对世界最好的温暖，犀利的判断是对世界最好的抚摸。
关于生活的真实的问题，从来不是我们怎么样才能理智而科学的看待现实，而是我们如何能够熟练的通过拿捏人性来实现理性的结局。既然主观性是无法绕过的，任何试图绕过的努力都是徒劳的；我们构建世界的基础不是世界本身，而是如何在主观世界中安放现实世界的映射，及其之间的联系。
有趣是各种聪明中最聪明的一种。
温和的激进分子
迭代反复前进
社会联结对我们有益处，孤独是有害的。
幸福本质上来源于社会联结，而不是所做的事情本身--认识清楚其本源，在做事情之时便会有不同的方式。
对于想得到的东西，大部分的时候都是一个简单的问题：你愿意拿什么来换
你只能被你在意的东西所伤。在真正在意一个人或事之前必须清楚这一点。
Working on it is much more efficient in pushing things forward than thinking about it.
Everyone is fighting his own war.
Take it as a game; be an interesting person
Everything is a skill that can be acquired
Value based life.
Instead of criticizing, demonstrating what is right
Pay attention to the things that can really make a difference in life. Self-pithiness is the worst feeling among all feelings.
You cannot expect a wolf to eat grass.
Consider every people you engage with as source of fun instead of pressure and pain
How far can you go depends on how good you can make jokes
Protect yourself from collateral damages from people who has lost control of themselves.
The reason why it starts is also the reason why it ends; every beginning has its ending
利益的保护是politics的核心
执念是个很糟糕的tradition
有些人是过客，有些人是一生，分清这两者非常必要
我们都容易被我们不具有的东西所吸引
生活中的一切皆可理论化和系统化，并依此言行，即是力量所在。
知道从别人的角度看问题，即使从那个角度看你自己很不堪。不只是要宣扬自我. 人际关系归根到底，还是一种交换，强大的人际关系来源于给予的能力。这个世界只关心你能给与什么。那些普通交往的人也是。一切皆由此驱动。
人是分category的,一旦被分入了一个category，改变很艰难，也不应存在幻想。我对他人如此，他人对我亦如此。所谓识人之术，即是指此。如果对一个人有证据确凿的清晰判断，不要奢望会有惊喜，事物即会向该发展的方向发展
Making judgement,对一件事情，对一个人。开始不一定要正确，但一定要有自己的判断. Put labels on people to manage them.
一定要非常清楚是不是单方心理协议-你觉得对方应当的事其实对方没有这种认为的基础。不愿接受“意图与结果”的差距，是低情商的一个表现。把对方的感受作为最终的标准，而不是自己的想法和意图
切不可以感情期待代替事实，只能驱动事实。
我的价值不会由一件事和一个人决定。
痛苦分两种，一种是没有意义的，一种是让人成长的。Pain is inevitable, suffering is optional
修养就是与本性抗拒的过程。战胜你的本能反应，如果明确那是错误的
判断要止损的时候一定要止损
一定要尊重最基本的原理
不要拿别人的错误来惩罚自己。作出正确的判断避免被伤害
尊重生活的规则，和美德。重新评估美德对生活的价值
每一个大的挫折都是重要的自省的机会，因为它暴露了自己重要的缺陷
Respect the rules.
You cannot put all your value of life into a single person or a thing.
There are many types of addictions. But all of them are ADDICTIONS.
How much you can achieve depends on how much you can control yourself. Effective and painless even joyful self control is essential and key.
每个人都有其弱点。智慧便是如何避免受其所累了。
智慧不在于如何提高自己受苦的能力，而是如何不让自己陷入到那样的情境之中。没有人能确信自己风寒之后一定不会感冒，关键在于如何免受风寒。
Always maintain a certain level of detachment to human nature, it can be learned, enjoyed, even manipulated, but never indulge yourself in it, without seeing the constant volatility.
Any obsession has a price tag.
What hurts you is not the impact of the event, it is how you interpret it.
If you forget some lesson, one possible reason is, it's not painful enough for you to remember.
Check from other's perspective before finalizing anything
Moderate pain is most comfortable: we are always in pain, either the pain from meaningless life not knowing what to do, or the pain from working on something that takes effort. At least the later one has extra bonus and is aligned with our human nature.
善意的嘲笑是对世界最好的温暖，犀利的判断是对世界最好的抚摸。
关于生活的真实的问题，从来不是我们怎么样才能理智而科学的看待现实，而是我们如何能够熟练的通过拿捏人性来实现理性的结局。既然主观性是无法绕过的，任何试图绕过的努力都是徒劳的；我们构建世界的基础不是世界本身，而是如何在主观世界中安放现实世界的映射，及其之间的联系。
有趣是各种聪明中最聪明的一种。
温和的激进分子
迭代反复前进
社会联结对我们有益处，孤独是有害的。
幸福本质上来源于社会联结，而不是所做的事情本身--认识清楚其本源，在做事情之时便会有不同的方式。
对于想得到的东西，大部分的时候都是一个简单的问题：你愿意拿什么来换
你只能被你在意的东西所伤。在真正在意一个人或事之前必须清楚这一点。
Working on it is much more efficient in pushing things forward than thinking about it.
Everyone is fighting his own war.
Take it as a game; be an interesting person
Everything is a skill that can be acquired
Value based life.
Instead of criticizing, demonstrating what is right
Pay attention to the things that can really make a difference in life. Self-pithiness is the worst feeling among all feelings.
You cannot expect a wolf to eat grass.
Consider every people you engage with as source of fun instead of pressure and pain
How far can you go depends on how good you can make jokes
Protect yourself from collateral damages from people who has lost control of themselves.
The reason why it starts is also the reason why it ends; every beginning has its ending
利益的保护是politics的核心
执念是个很糟糕的tradition
有些人是过客，有些人是一生，分清这两者非常必要
我们都容易被我们不具有的东西所吸引
生活中的一切皆可理论化和系统化，并依此言行，即是力量所在。
知道从别人的角度看问题，即使从那个角度看你自己很不堪。不只是要宣扬自我. 人际关系归根到底，还是一种交换，强大的人际关系来源于给予的能力。这个世界只关心你能给与什么。那些普通交往的人也是。一切皆由此驱动。
人是分category的,一旦被分入了一个category，改变很艰难，也不应存在幻想。我对他人如此，他人对我亦如此。所谓识人之术，即是指此。如果对一个人有证据确凿的清晰判断，不要奢望会有惊喜，事物即会向该发展的方向发展
Making judgement,对一件事情，对一个人。开始不一定要正确，但一定要有自己的判断. Put labels on people to manage them.
一定要非常清楚是不是单方心理协议-你觉得对方应当的事其实对方没有这种认为的基础。不愿接受“意图与结果”的差距，是低情商的一个表现。把对方的感受作为最终的标准，而不是自己的想法和意图
切不可以感情期待代替事实，只能驱动事实。
我的价值不会由一件事和一个人决定。
痛苦分两种，一种是没有意义的，一种是让人成长的。Pain is inevitable, suffering is optional
修养就是与本性抗拒的过程。战胜你的本能反应，如果明确那是错误的
判断要止损的时候一定要止损
一定要尊重最基本的原理
不要拿别人的错误来惩罚自己。作出正确的判断避免被伤害
尊重生活的规则，和美德。重新评估美德对生活的价值
每一个大的挫折都是重要的自省的机会，因为它暴露了自己重要的缺陷
Respect the rules.
You cannot put all your value of life into a single person or a thing.
There are many types of addictions. But all of them are ADDICTIONS.
How much you can achieve depends on how much you can control yourself. Effective and painless even joyful self control is essential and key.
每个人都有其弱点。智慧便是如何避免受其所累了。
智慧不在于如何提高自己受苦的能力，而是如何不让自己陷入到那样的情境之中。没有人能确信自己风寒之后一定不会感冒，关键在于如何免受风寒。